Hmm.....I don't know, this is about you, but here's my 2cents.
It's not about choosing who you love, you already made that decision didn't you? By letting go and moving on. It's about a thing called commitment and promise. Those are somewhat a few principle need of becoming a human. The way you treat those commitment and promises you made will affect you and the one being promised.
Just as anyone say, who you want to be with. If you want to be with your best friend, then you should say the truth to your boyfriend. Break your promises and commitment candidly heartily, and respectfully to him n yourself. But if you think your promises to your boyfriend is (for this moment) is far more important and precious than what the other might offer and give to you, then you should respect and value your relationship.
And beside, the thing about moving on, if he's still running on the same spot, it's not your decision to make him move nor stay there. It's his decision. Kinda being a jerk, he unconsciously lets you to decide how's this will come out.
If somehow, in the near future, your roads will cross again, and by that time you are free and so is he, then, it still not too late to be in love again.
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It's not about choosing who you love, you already made that decision didn't you? By letting go and moving on.
It's about a thing called commitment and promise. Those are somewhat a few principle need of becoming a human. The way you treat those commitment and promises you made will affect you and the one being promised.
Just as anyone say, who you want to be with. If you want to be with your best friend, then you should say the truth to your boyfriend. Break your promises and commitment candidly heartily, and respectfully to him n yourself. But if you think your promises to your boyfriend is (for this moment) is far more important and precious than what the other might offer and give to you, then you should respect and value your relationship.
And beside, the thing about moving on, if he's still running on the same spot, it's not your decision to make him move nor stay there. It's his decision. Kinda being a jerk, he unconsciously lets you to decide how's this will come out.
If somehow, in the near future, your roads will cross again, and by that time you are free and so is he, then, it still not too late to be in love again.