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jpoplover_101) wrote2011-08-09 04:49 pm
jpoplover_101) wrote2011-08-09 04:49 pm
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Love Triangle
Omg, the past week has been the most stressful week of my life. My best friend from Texas came to visit me while my boyfriend went to Puerto Rico for family. I haven't seen my best friend in like months so I spent a lot of time with him. The first day we hang out, and he tells me he loves me. Not like "I love you as a friend" he meant "I'm in love with you." Just to let you know, back in 8th grade I used to like him too. It's been two years since then and he still likes loves me. I didn't know what to say when he told me that so I just asked him "Seriously?" and he said "Yes."
It wasn't awkward after that, I just played along. He knows where he stands though, as my best friend. I felt like I had to tell my boyfriend, so I did. He says that my best friend better know where he stands. But as the week went by, my best friend kept telling me he loves me and stuff. He says I make his days brighter and he was willing to wait for me.
But the whole point I got a boyfriend was because I thought my best friend didn't like me anymore so I thought it'd be best to move on. So I did. I never thought he never moved on. He said he tried forgetting about me and even tried cutting me out of his life, but he couldn't. He said not talking to me or not seeing me is like killing himself. When he told me this, idk, I felt really bad for him. I felt like I caused him all of this pain.
Of course I love my boyfriend but a small part of me still likes my best friend. Honestly, my best friend is perfect for me. But he lives in Texas and I'm still in love with my boyfriend. Idk what to do. I need help.
It wasn't awkward after that, I just played along. He knows where he stands though, as my best friend. I felt like I had to tell my boyfriend, so I did. He says that my best friend better know where he stands. But as the week went by, my best friend kept telling me he loves me and stuff. He says I make his days brighter and he was willing to wait for me.
But the whole point I got a boyfriend was because I thought my best friend didn't like me anymore so I thought it'd be best to move on. So I did. I never thought he never moved on. He said he tried forgetting about me and even tried cutting me out of his life, but he couldn't. He said not talking to me or not seeing me is like killing himself. When he told me this, idk, I felt really bad for him. I felt like I caused him all of this pain.
Of course I love my boyfriend but a small part of me still likes my best friend. Honestly, my best friend is perfect for me. But he lives in Texas and I'm still in love with my boyfriend. Idk what to do. I need help.
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Sorry I maybe can't help much. coz I think you're the one understand your heart most of all.
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I think what you should do is think about who of the two you truly like or love more. Don't make the decision too fast and really think about it.You're heart should tell you who you need more. Another thing to take into account is how often will you see who you choose, and how would you feel without the other person in your life like that. It may take a while to come up with an answer but if they really like you then they should understand.
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Oh youth and lovvve! kilig!
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who's the one you love the most? I think you know the answer better than anyone.. try to ask yourself, who's the one that you don't want to loose the most..
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This is just my personal opinion/experience... If u and your best friend didn't start off 2 years ago, why now? if u want him to be your best friend FOREVER, don't start a relationship cause certain things change once u are steady. and if u ever breakoff, he will no more be a friend. :P
take care... ^o^..remember to love yourself more!
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It's not about choosing who you love, you already made that decision didn't you? By letting go and moving on.
It's about a thing called commitment and promise. Those are somewhat a few principle need of becoming a human. The way you treat those commitment and promises you made will affect you and the one being promised.
Just as anyone say, who you want to be with. If you want to be with your best friend, then you should say the truth to your boyfriend. Break your promises and commitment candidly heartily, and respectfully to him n yourself. But if you think your promises to your boyfriend is (for this moment) is far more important and precious than what the other might offer and give to you, then you should respect and value your relationship.
And beside, the thing about moving on, if he's still running on the same spot, it's not your decision to make him move nor stay there. It's his decision. Kinda being a jerk, he unconsciously lets you to decide how's this will come out.
If somehow, in the near future, your roads will cross again, and by that time you are free and so is he, then, it still not too late to be in love again.